Congratulations @Cora I had been married to my hubby for 30 years when I got my BC diagnosis - he was great . He said “ your brain is your most important body part and the boobs are not essential”. I had double mastectomy and reconstruction and he declared my new “ foobs” “perfect”. What I’m trying to say is we are more than the sum of our physical parts and there is joy to be had in many places post BC diagnosis. All the best and take care🌺