magicmum
13 years agoMember
Who me ?
"Come back for another scan, there's a grey area"
That was just over 4 weeks ago, and I thought "who, me ?" I was so sure it was just a bruise from when I had fallen some weeks before, and then the...
Oh sweetie, I feel so bad being a misery guts when my surgery paled into comparison. I hope it all goes so well for you, and that they find you have no nodes involved, or minimal - and that you get a HER2 negative. It IS the unknown thing for us, it's so hard.When I'm feeling sensible I know that it's pointless over-worrying - it is what it is, and worrying won;t stop it or fix it. You just get the best advice, follow it and then hope for the best. Worrying causes stress and stress can be a danger all on its own.
We'll get there together, we'll hang on together. In a year, in 5 years, in 10 years we'll laugh and wonder why we were worried. And we'll be able to help others where we are now.
Breathe.
Have a look on the Net for the chillout song by Ze Frank - it really helps.
Chin up girl, we can do it.
love and hugs
Keitha