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Eastmum
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7 years ago

When laughter is the best medicine

Today I reconnected with an old friend after she posted on Facebook about her breast cancer survival. 

While we were chatting she said:
 ‘I’d be happy to give you a couple of pointers’

To which I replied:
’That would be awesome ‘cos they cut mine off!’ 

She eventually laughed hahaha

So what are the ways that some of you have used humour to lock heads with Breast Cancer and tell it where it can shove its ugly head? 

Xxxxx



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  • It was my first. I told some close girlfriends that I had a shiny giney and now that's my nickname!
  • @arpie  - you’re so right - humour is often appropriate and cathartic. 

    When I decided to let a bunch of friends know I was about to have a DMX, I really wanted to set the ‘tone’ - no doom and gloom! So I started my message by saying that I had two things I needed to get off my chest......

    i did apologise in case anyone was offended and was particularly worried that my friends who had lost loved ones to cancer would be offended - they were the ones who laughed the loudest! :)

    @"Kiwi Angel" - it will be my first Brazilian! My daughters will be scandalized! 
  • @Eastmum
    haha - that's a CLASSIC!!  Love it!!

    My friend was recently diagnosed with Metastatic BC & was seeing the Onc for the first time last week & all 3 of her kids came down to support her & her hubby ..... I got to meet one of them & as we were introduced to the son & daughter in law, I gave my buddy a hug & said "I'm her new Breastie'' - and was really relieved that she had a good laugh ....... 

    Humour (& being kept BUSY) is so vital, I think, as a way of processing all the shit we are going thru ...... some more than others ..... keep 'em coming!!

    @"Kiwi Angel"
    Lucky you (sort of) - I've never bothered with a brazillian (a bit before my time!  LOL) and I only have one rather patchy looking few hairs under my right armpit to show for my radiation ..... so I don't have to worry about shaving that one as often now ..... 

    Take care ladies & gents ...... xx
  • @Eastmum - that’s funny. I’m enjoying the chemo induced brazilian that I no longer have to maintain and I always try and have a laugh - if I didn’t I’d probably cry all the time!!  Glad u r home xo