You post reminds me of one from last year,that actually made me laugh,about what people say.The lady who put it on here,was going for a walk/ jog I think around Albert Park Lake in Melbourne,when she came across a personal trainer,running a boot camp type of thing.She had lost her hair,and as she went past them,she heard him say(rather loudly) "now look at that lady... COME ON ,GET ON WITH IT!!!!!!"It made me laugh,and I believe that people don't mean to upset us with their comments.I try to remember back before I had cancer,and I honestly can't remember how I ever reacted to the news that someone had cancer.I have felt sorrow at hearing the news,but I can't remember my other reactions.I guess we are all so different,so we just need to filter our friends if some are causing us distress.Its a good blog subject I think.Cheers xxxRobyn