Things people say.
Yesterday I decided to treat myself to a new outfit.
I felt good the dressings were finally off my poor irradiated boob and I was sporting almost a number 3s worth of hair on my noggin.
When the ...
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Hi Mumflo
Yes, people are soooo scared of us breast cancer survivors that they simply don't know what to say - so, they forget to engage their brain.
Don't be put off by ignorant people. As Chorsell says, think of a few retorts - OR put it back on them and highlight something about them !
I am finding I am a 'non person' just like when you resign from a job. People are often quite jealous that you are making the move or they are disappointed that you are leaving. People cease to talk to you.
In our case I think it is them thinking "oh xxxx, what if it were me ?". A friend of many many years has taken a back seat - and on the bus sized vehicle - she just cannot cope with the whole idea, let alone be of support.
When shopping yesterday I was seen by someone who knows I had a boob removed due to breast cancer. She said "Oh, what are you doing out already ?" - Well, we have to eat and pay bills, don't we ?
People love to tell their stories as a way of 'bettering' yours - just walk away from them as you do not need them.
I am being told I am positive and brave but really, what can we do ? Curl up and die ? Human nature takes over, the will to live is a powerful thing.
Go out and be proud of yourself, treat the ignorant people with the respect they deserve and have a wonderful day spoiling yourself.
Have a great weekend.
Summer