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12 years ago

The Foxs Lady

I'm feeling very isolated as a TNBC in my area. 

To my knowledge there is one other (a recent diagnosis who is now going head long into intensive treatment).

I have physically met three survivors.

I know that there are more out there but I find women with hormonal breast cancer have no concept of TNBC.

Looking forward to connecting with others...........

I was diagnosed grade 3 stage 3.

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  • Hey Linda. I also have stage and grade 3 and l so know how scary it is. I didn't ask my doctor for ages and ages, but when I finally did he was enthusiastically positive. He says my chances are very very good.....and I am confident. I have had a mastectomy and am just about to do my 6th round of chemo. I will start radiation in 3 weeks. I have also had the genetic testing done and am waiting for results - but have decided to have the other breast off and a hysterectomy because of my BIg family history of cancer. Honey you will be fine. They are so good at treating this these days. I am really confident. Please don't hesitate to contact me any time.
  • I am so sorry you are feeling isolated.  Have been reading your blogs and see you are 1200 km from Brisbane, so I'm guessing north-west or north.  I am in SE Qld, so not much help geographically but we can chat online.

    I am TNBC too, diagnosed last April with Grade 2 Stage 3, and like you, found my lump in the shower, between mammograms and US's.  I had bilateral surgery, chemo & rads, and then a hysterectomy  - hopefully to cut the percentages of recurrence.  At present I am in remission and feeling normal apart from numb-ish toes and reduced energy levels.

    Apparently the best thing we can do for ourselves is diet and exercise - lots of vegetables and at least 30 mins a day workout, walking or gym.  I also do yoga because it is so relaxing, in a class set up by Anahata Healing.

    There is an enormous amount of research going into TNBC and they are getting some really good lab results.  Hopefully there will soon be trials.  All we can do is be as strong as we can to fight this in the meantime.

    We are all here for each other.  The pink sisterhood is just wonderful.  Keep posting so we know how you are going.  Big hug,

    Michelle xx

  • I too was diagnosed with stage 3 grade 3 TNBC. Lumpectomy with cancer in one lymph node. I'm yet to ask my oncologist what my chances are of the cancer returning. I think I'm afraid of what the answer may be. Does anybody know if the chances of the cancer returning are greater as we are not able to have hormone therapy?? I've only just completed 2 of 6 chemo cycles. Radiation is to follow. Linda
  • Hi, my name is Jacky and I was diagnosed with TNBC (Stage 2, Grade 3) 1st May this year. I'm half way through chemo after a lumpectomy, with radiation to follow. Wouldn't it be great if all TNBC patients were concentrated in one area?! Anyone around Albury-Wodonga?
    I feel pretty lucky that all treatment is available locally, cannot imagine how much harder it would be if you have to add a lot of travelling or being away from home like some of you describe.
    6 years ago my husband and I moved to Australia, from the Netherlands, and since we never got kids it's just him and me, no extended family. He's great, and we have friends around that are there for us too... although it's not the same as family.
    Dear Foxs Lady; we might not live close, but we are here! Only a couple of clicks away!

  • Hi, my name is Jacky and I was diagnosed with TNBC (Stage 2, Grade 3) 1st May this year. I'm half way through chemo after a lumpectomy, with radiation to follow. Wouldn't it be great if all TNBC patients were concentrated in one area?! Anyone around Albury-Wodonga?
    I feel pretty lucky that all treatment is available locally, cannot imagine how much harder it would be if you have to add a lot of travelling or being away from home like some of you describe.
    6 years ago my husband and I moved to Australia, from the Netherlands, and since we never got kids it's just him and me, no extended family. He's great, and we have friends around that are there for us too... although it's not the same as family.
    Dear Foxs Lady; we might not live close, but we are here! Only a couple of clicks away!

  • I have lived 1000kms from treatment so no the isolation well and yes triple negative for the last 3 years I have been fighting and now unfortunately secondary diagnosis at age 38. I too come across more hormonal ladies then not! But I guess trip neg is the minority
  • Unfortunately isolation can be a reality for many! Where are you from? I'm from Tamworth and understand completely the way you are feeling. I also was diagnosed Stage 3 12 months ago, so have finished all treatment options. Hang in there it will get easier. Happy to answer any questions you may have. Lou
  • Unfortunately isolation can be a reality for many! Where are you from? I'm from Tamworth and understand completely the way you are feeling. I also was diagnosed Stage 3 12 months ago, so have finished all treatment options. Hang in there it will get easier. Happy to answer any questions you may have. Lou
  • Hi my name is Jane and I have the same diagnosis as you stage 3 and grade 3. I have had a mastectomy am just about to finish chemo and start radiation. I am living in Sydney at the moment But am usually from Byron Bay...though I have been in Vietnam for 5 years. I know how scary it is.....and have had people say when I say breast cancer - "oh well your going to be fine then aren't you?" Would love a chat sometime. Jane