Hi ShereeJoy,
I wasn't offended at all by your prior posting, don't worry. Just feel for you that you have to go through it all.
I agree; I wished we could all take Herceptin or Tamoxifen and reduce our chances... but I also understand it that women on that who have side effects think that sucks; it does! Anyone with breast cancer has a chance of a recurrance... ours is just bigger :(
I will have a meeting with a genetic team in february; they only come up from Melbourne 4 times a year. I don't expect much from it, and even less reading the postings here.
Wished you were closer by, I could pop around and lend a helping hand... must be hard to miss your husband half of the time, juggle 2 young kids AND treatment. Hope you have lots of friends and family to help out. Big hug!