So sorry jacky if that came out wrong I totally agree even going through it once is "shit"!!! And with tnbc we all have a high chance of reoccurance... I was just unlucky twice lol but like jewel has said to and she took the words right out of my mouth! The sexual abusers, the drug addicts the smokers and heavy drinkers... All of which I don't do and here I am with cancer. I too have been told brca 1 and 2 are not the only genetic cancers. Can't wait until they find the rest as this frustrates me the ladies who get to take hormones and herceptin blockers and complain about it... I only wish I had of had Something post treatment first time to give me a better chance of it not coming back! You are left High and dry post chemo and radiation and surgery for tnbc. This is why I personally raised $14000 and my team for "mothers day classic" raised $28000... I am desperate for more research in triple negative. We need it now before it is to late! :( I am hanging on for better days I want to grow older with my kids. I am only 38 with a 5 and a 7 year old son who this diagnosis has had to relocate to Brissy (1000 or more Km's from home) and hubby is commuting to see us on a 2 week on, 2 week off basis because of our business (a Newsagency) that we are struggling to keep afloat ATM