cher54
15 years agoMember
The Beginning
Noooooo, I can't believe I just lost all I had written before it had posted........Aaarrgggggh!!!! Can I be bothered starting again - I'll try.....
Although I have been a member here for a while I ...
Hi Annie2,
So nice to meet you. Thankyou for your positive thoughts and yes I am looking forward to finally getting & accepting the help and support I should have sought much earlier through this site. Too darn independant for my own good....LOL
Just to clarify a couple of things though - I have been divorced since 1999 so it was not my spouse who left me but my live-in partner (defacto) who I had living with me for some time who couldn't take the heat plus he was having medical issues of his own at the time. It was actually a huge relief when he finally called it quits as I was beside myself with stress & he wouldn't accept it when I tried to call it. Financially though, it is a nightmare.
Also, it was not my SIL who died of BC, but my ex husband's 2nd wife (my childrens' step-mother) so the kids of course had that double whammy. I didn't know her really well but certainly didn't dislike her as she was always nice.
Looking forward to sharing more times on here with you and others
Cher