Hi
I so know what you are going through !
I am due to have surgery on this Thursday and it scares the heck out of me.
I to just didnt want to speak to anyone if they rang it was just to hard at the start. It was so fresh like an open wound that just needed time to heal a little.
I to have had all the opinionated people saying gee why have they taken so long to book you in etc. The waiting is hard enough let alone others adding to it.
Like others say just take time for you as you do need it. This is sometihing that unless others have been thrown into this position really dont have a full understanding of how hard it is on us.
I to was glad to join this site as the ladies on here are so so understanding and been there before and can help us all out.
Thank you ladies