Thank you

Thanks for sharing your story Sandy.  It made a tear drop down my cheek.  (Must be the chemo again!!!!!)  Yes you are very blessed to have Brendan and he you.  Life is so different for all of us.  Some people just glide through and others find the real meaning of life.  We here on this site all know life's meaning and treasure it.  I too have a wonderful husband.  We had been together for 9 years when I was first diagnosed.  We married exactly a  year after the  diagnosis.  It is the best decision I have ever made.  He is with me through thick and thin.  I was just thinking last night how much quality time we are now spending together. (I am confined to home due to illness from the present chemo treatment)  My husband gets home at around 3.30pm so we just relax and talk.  When I was working I would not get home until at least 6.30pm by which time he was pretty sick of being on his own and wanting dinner then off to bed.  So there are always good things to come out of bad.  Who else would sit in my hospital room all gloved, masked and gowned up for 2 hours whilst the nursing staff whinged at having to do it for 5 minutes??  Your story just reminded me how lucky I am to have him.  I am glad you told your husband how much you appreciated him.  They are precious - did I say that ? XLeonie