Glad to hear from you today. Wow, things are moving fast for you. I found Sharon Laura pretty clinical at first, but we have had a few meetings with her, and i find her letting down the professional guard now and then, even a giggle.
I didn't like it at first, but have found her to be compassionate but honest, saying it like it is, facts and statistics. I find I can trust this approach and now feel comfortable. But I completely understand what you mean. I hope she works out for you.
Also, I actually found the breast care nurse filled in most gaps and information post meetings with Sharon. By that stage I had thought up a few more questions, and really wanted discussion.
Sounds like you have an army around you, the best way to be on this hideous journey.
Take care
Louie