I get it also! I stopped hormone tablets early because of debilitating side effects combined with my thyroid med. Oncologist strongly suggested I stop because the most benefit for me was in the first 3 years and I had low ER positive % to start with. I was to make it to 5 years on hormone therapy, but I made it to nearly 4 years. Will it return, idk, but my memory was so badly affected I left the grill on while cooking and nearly burnt my house down, no point me going up in a puff of smoke, and killing myself that way.
@Tonya I agree facts, and instincts finally helped me decided I was at high risk of snuffing myself out by leaving the stove on and messing up which medication I took and when. Hormones, and lack of them to balance our brain functions is also very important.
@Ellenwatson65 talk with your specialists and see also if there are alternatives before abandoning it completely, but I understand ultimately our decisions need to be weighted with the benefit/versus risks, and your gut instinct will then be your best friend after getting the facts.
Totally agree, every bc decision is awful @TonyaM , in that regard chemo was very important for me as was in the lymph nodes, and thankfully I got through the 6 months of treatment rather OK, meaning I didn't end up hospitalised, but the usual brain drain and fatigue, and digestive issues. Not a picnic, but my body managed well enough.
Best wishes on weighing things up @Ellenwatson65