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 Thanks was worried, as this is all new not sure on a lot of things. Glad I  have all you angels for support. Big hugs Debbie xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 Thanks was worried, as this is all new not sure on a lot of things. Glad I  have all you angels for support. Big hugs Debbie xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi Debbie,

When I first got b cancer in 2003 I didn't have any body scans.My lymph nodes(18!)were all clear so didn't have chemo either.However,with the recurrence last year,I got the full works! It also depends on your pathology too.If it's hercepton +ve then you might have to.Mine wasn't  -it was estrogen+ve and that is more favourable.

Anyway,I'm sure your doc. will advise you.I've come to realize that if you REALLY need a test or treatment or drugs they will insist you have it.If they say it's your choice then it's probably not that necessary but they are covering themselves and also giving you choice.Some people want the full works regardless.

                              Luv Tonya xx

Hi Debbie  - I think because you are not having any chemo etc, they don't need to do scans.  I had to have them because I am having chemo and radiothereapy, I could be wrong - so go ahead and ask your doctor any way, there is never harm in asking is there? x x x

 I have not had any scans , I go to my onocologist on the 20th of this month, is that when they arrange it or do you have to ask to have them?.  I feel better after I have been talking to you all , it really helps me as I am still coming to terms with this. Feeling good today ,no tears YAH. Debbie

Now there's a thing, I was pretty weepy with the scans too! I thought I was being a bit of a baby, it had nothing to do with 'it hurting' I knew it wouldn't - its just an xray, but - it was the whole daunting experience and the stuff that is going through your head - I just felt so emotional!  This is amazing because with chats like this, all of a sudden you really are in touch with people 'who really do know what is like - how you feel' -.You dont have to be alone.  That is such a good thing!

I was the same Joy- couldn't predict when the water works would start.I didn't shed a tear during body scans and mastectomy.But when I signed the chemo consent form I turned into a blubbering mess.They must have thought I was a nut case cos they rang and told my surgeon about it.So when I went for my check up with her she mentioned my meltdown.I just told her I was having a "moment".I was embarrassed.I think if I hadn't let it all build up then I wouldn't have exploded from signing a piece of paper.So let the tears flow and hopefully you'll avoid major public meltdowns!

                                                                        luv Tonya xx

You are so right! Thank you ......trouble is why do you wanna cry at THE most inappropriate times - tears were running down my face on the operating table and I couldn't stop them, I mean I wasn't sobbing or anything, they just streamed down my face!  I felt like a bit of a goose x J

Yes Debbie, you will have the tears.  I was watching the 500th Footy Show last night and they showed a segment of 'Crawf's Charity Run' for Breast Cancer - I couldn't help thinking when he did that last year, I had absolutely no idea I would soon be in the 'pink' category.  So my eyes leaked a bit watching it - it really hit home.  I am having nightmares lately and it wakes my poor husband up, all I know is I wake up frightened (I can't remember the dreams) and he is consoling me - this thing really gets to you. Thank you for the hugs - right back at you girl xo oxo oxo ox

Yesterday I went and had a remedial massage to get more movement in my arm and for the pain. Wow what a difference, can move my arm more and not as sore. My husband came along with his note book and wrote it down , so he can do it at home for me. I can not beleive it has been 2 weeks today since my operation , things have moved so fast. Tonight I am going to dinner to meet my support group in my area. Today is a good day. Love to you all Debbie. xxxxxxxxxxxx