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Yes I do! Absolutely! - I love all the Vacation movies, even today my children quote some of the dialogue - "Look kids- Parliament, Big Ben!" and we laugh.  I can watch these movies over and over and still crack up laughing, I love the movie 'Something about Mary" I remember the first time we watched it and was sore from rolling around the floor laughing our heads off!  A good dose of 'corny' humour works wonders on me! 

Hi jjoy,

You like all the same movies I like! Do you like the vacation movies with Chevy Chase?O and what about Dumb and dumber? Shows you how unsophisticated my humour is - pie in the face style!

                                Tonya xx

I know exactly how you feel - sometimes, I want to just disappear - I make jokes, and that is a good thing - but the private me, is a very different person.......watch funny movies! Trust me, it helps!.......especially if you have seen them before, "the Jerk'  with Steve Martin, 'Trains, planes and Automobiles', 'Dirty Rotten Scoundrenls'.........or even the flaky ....'Flying High'.........all worth a laugh!....laughter is THE best medicine!

Thank you for taking the time to help. Wishing you all the best .

Debbie  xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 I am just at the start of my journey and have such a long way to go.  At times I have so many thoughts going around in my head and wish I could just close my eyes and it would all go away. I feel at times I am in control and dealing with it ,then comes the tears and overwhelming fear. Thanks for your support and thoughts.

Debbie xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 Thanks for the tip

Debbie

Hi Debbie

Please don't laugh but I actually took my husband's pyjamas into hospital with me! They buttoned all the way down the front and were plenty big enough. My husband is quite slight and we are roughly the same size so worked for me but maybe if you are shopping tomorrow you should check out the men's dept. I also ended up wearing a lot of his shirts when I got home again for comfort and ease of getting in and out of them!

I didn't want to spend lots of money on something I never wear, Brian hadn't worn his PJ's since we moved to Australia from NZ 4 years ago.

Check out your husband's wardrobe first just in case!

Sarah

Thanks Tonya,

I bought some nighties that button down the front ,but they do have a small sleeve, I hate the feel of cotton and found it hard to get a light weight  jersey  nightie that does button bown the front very low. Only place I found them was Target. Going tomorrow to try and find some loose tops that button down the front ,do not have any.

Debbie xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 Last night just could not sleep , had so many things going round in my head . Thought I  was starting to handle it better.Woke up had a good cry and pulled myself together, packed my bag for hospital , ironed all my husbands cloths for the week and here I am with my new friends, just needed to let it out. 

Debbie