Someone to chat with
Is there any one on line that I could chat with. Only just diagnosed and would like to chat with others that have been through this ordeal.
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Hi Debbie,
Hang in there. I am 3 and 1/2 weeks out of surgery. I myself have lots of fluid build up which i have to get drained twice weekly by needle. I find the fluid more uncomfortable than anything. I can tell you the pain under the arm is still there but it has improved.
As for the bra. I tried to wear mine straight away but the fluid build up made it too painful so my breast care nurse suggested I purchase one of those tank tops from target or kmart which have the band inside the top part. Not the best bra but I found it gave some support. I could still insert my padded insert they gave me and it was far more comfortable than the bra. Am pleased to say I am back in my bra now although some days I still revert back to the tank top.
If you are in too much pain I would go to your local gp and ask for something a bit stronger. I had something I took mainly at night - just to help me sleep.
Hang in there Debbie. Like you I am still in a daze by the whole process but am hoping that talking to people such as yourself going through the same emotions etc will help me.
Hang in there. It can only get better!!
Wendy xx