Resentment

Hi, it sounds like what you are going through is really tough.  I hope since then it has improved.  Of course you love your family but you need more support from them.  Unfortunately many people take advantage of a person who works very hard for them.  It's lovely for them to have that person who works so hard for them and they don't easily step up and take over from them.  In my experience one way to get people to step up is to stop doing things for them.  Leave their washing unwashed is a good plan.  Leave the house messy and dirty.  Put yourself first without asking for their permission.  Hopefully they will get the message and do more.  I can't guarantee it will work but think it worth a try.  Good luck and best wishes.