Cook65
10 years agoMember
Resentment
Hi all, well it's been 6 months since I finished cancer treatment but I am still undergoing rituximab infusions for another chronic illness that I have sufferred for 8 years. Throughout my cancer tre...
Hi Wendy
Im glad you were able to speak to your husband. I know my husband has not coped the whole way along. He has only just in the last few months been able to verbalise that he has been a basket case. That's about as much as you get out of him but at least he will talk about it. I've had counselling but he has refused to go. He's a tough bloke, he doesn't need it! The counsellor has told me to just focus on me which is all well and good but it doesn't deal with the resentment that bubbles away. I feel as though bc has changed everything in my life but nothing has changed in theirs. I will be fine. I will get through this rough patch and be back to my normal positive self. Just hope I don't need bail money in between times. Karen xox