Brenda5
9 years agoMember
Rant about Hubby
I have to get this off my chest or I might go insane.
I am worried about hubby, I think he might be going insane. I got up this morning for a cuppa with a sore throat and hubby was at the sink but ...
Sounds like he is overstressed and feels.like he has no control over what is happening. Mine went through a similar stage when I started Chemo and he had to step up as he has always been acting as a spoiled toddler and thia time he had to start pulling hia weight...
Mine also went on a weird hwalth kick mind you his was not halthy and when I could not get through to him I made an appointment for ua both with the GP as we see the same.one and did not tell him he was being seen as well so when he took me and we went in I 'dobbed him in' and told the GP about my concerns and GP could then speak with him properly. He was pissed at me afterwards but he has changed some of those bad food habbits so it did work for us.
I honestly do not see a problem with the veggie water by the way as it is no different from drinking a vegetable soup and would have nutrients that normally water does not have...
Eating citrus peel will make him contipated but that is about it... It would help if he washed them and frankly if they were organic as he would also be eating a fair few pesticides but again chance is it is just a passing stage if he is anxious. Maybe worth while if you wash and dry the fruits when he is not arround so by the time he gets to them they are at least germ free... Also there are lot of vegetable wash type solutions on the market that will remove a fair bit of pesticides as well as germs that you can buy these days. I use one and can send you a link where you can order it if you wish.
I have recently gone 'chemical free' in my household and found a.company that sells not just cleaning cloths that clean everything with just water but also sell enzyme and vegtable based cleaning liquids and among them have this vegetable wash that I just dunk everytjing in when I bring it from the shops, dry then pop i to the dlfridge or fruit basket and it really works... Plus not worried then about eating dirt, mould or pesticides...
More than anything though I think it is worth talking to him and just letting him know you love him and care about him and that you are worried that something is troubling him to see if he will open up. As well as giving him information on options he might have out there in terms of support - as he may not be ready to talk to you yet... Maybe, though, he would be more comfortable talking to the GP or a counsellor.of some sort or even a dietitian at this stage (of he tjinks he is on a health kick - I mean he might be.more open to a dititian than a.social.worker or counsellor or psychologist but if he soeaks to one then if he sees some behaviours need changing then maybe psychologist visit will not be as scary or 'foreign' later on)
Best of luck
Jel.