Ady
10 years agoMember
Pet peeve
Hi
I am sure that I am not the only one who has this pet peeve. Since my diagnosis of breast cancer late last year it certainly tells you who will and who will not stick by you. One friend said she...
Hi Ady
I can understand how you must be feeling. I have experienced similar things from a couple of my family members. I was hurt so much about why they would behave as if life was just fine whereas in reality my life was thrown completely out of whack. I realised later that it's much better to cut out these sort of people from being around you in such tough times. At the end of the day the pain you will get is in your own body and it cannot be shared with anyone. But mentally you can only be strong if you are surrounded by strong and positive people. Weakness or negativity will only make your pain worse. We shouldn't be spending energy on thinking about or fixing relationships right now instead we should be focusing on ourselves and fixing ourselves. Once i m fixed i will have full mental physical and emotional capacity to kick their butts and ask bluntly what the hell they were thinking and how dare they behaved this way with me.
Xoxo P