Pen11
11 years agoMember
Newly diagnosed
Hi Everyone,
It's really quite beautiful to see the support that goes on here.
I was recently diagnosed with TNBC, have had a lumpectomy and 5 nodes removed with no lymph node involvement.
I'm 35 a...
First of all, welcome :-)
I was in a similar situation to you, diagnosed with TNBC at 32, no kids. I have had the full shebang - chemo, lumpectomy, & radiation.
I was told in a very straightforward manner by both the surgeon and oncologist that if I wanted to have kids in the future, to look into fertility options ie. egg harvesting, as chemo *could* make me infertile.
As it happens., I have never wanted kids, so this was not a problem. I finished chemo in March, and have yet to start menstrating again, so there is a strong possibility that I could have started menopause as a result of the treatment.
My suggestion would be to look into your options if there is even the smallest chance you could want kids in the future. You might only have a limited window of time if you are going to start chemo in the next month. Even if you end up deciding that it's not for you, at least you will be able to have a choice.
In regards to the genetic testing, thankfully I was negative for the genes. They said that for someone my age to get TNBC with no family history there was a strong chance that I would have it, but it came back all clear. So there is hope for that!
Best of luck with whatever you decide to do, and for your upcoming treatment :-)
From Bobbie