Hi Robyn
I was fortunate enough to listen to Jim Steins speak at a BCNA conference. At the time I had no clue as to who he even was (still not real sure, think he is AFL or something). but he spoke of his cancer journey and early on he made the decision to cut the people out of his life that were negative and did not give him 100%. He is a very positive man and had such a calm, peace about him. I often think of his words when I am listening to people ramble on about "small stuff" and I think that my life is wonderful and precious and my time is really important now so I cant waste it on people that aren't worth your time.
Please know I am not telling you to quit, think it through, but also know that you are a strong, wonderful women (we all are) that is facing a very difficult time of her life, You will come out stronger trust me (I used to be a wuss).
Take care, Yesterday is history, tomorrow a mystery and today is a present. So live the best life you have now.
Tanya