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Hi Summer

Thanks  for the saying. It is such good reminders for us in our daily life and on our crap days.

i will save it in my screensaver too.

Rosemary

Good morning Rowdy,

Sorry I missed commenting yesterday. Glad to hear today is another day.  From reading the comments, it's cemented another reason why I love this network.  We are not alone. There's always someone out there who 'gets you'. I'm early days post active treatment (just finished radiotherapy last Friday), the last straw is burn under my arm .  Family and friends are wondering why I'm not ecstatic it's all over, when I feel like it'll never be over.

Sending you a big hug.  Have a good day.

Karen xx

Good morning ladies thank you so much just knowing that there is someone out there that understands I don't feel so alone. I have seen a  counsellor and yes it did help, I'm thinking I might need to go back.

I know in there is my old self the strong., positive fun person. Today I go to work  with a new look on today because of all of you.

Sending you all big hugs and a laugh, I feel more like the warriour instead of the sookxxxxxxx

Hi Rowdy

This "new normal" sucks. I struggle with it on a daily basis. It feels like post traumatic stress almost. Yes, everyone's expectation is that treatment is over, you're cured so you should be on top of the world. If only it worked like that. 

As far as work goes, here's a strategy that I use.  I write down what I need to get done in the week and prioritise it. As I complete each task, I cross it off. It actually makes you feel like you are achieving something. You are only one person and you can only do what you can do. Is there someone you can ask to give you a hand? Perhaps go to your manager and get them to prioritise what they need done. And remember the world won't implode if it doesn't all get done this week. It will still be there next week. 

Yep, my hubby and kids are he same. Unless you specifically ask for help (and even then sometimes it doesn't happen) they don't think to do things themselves. That one I don't know how you get around. Plan something nice for yourself. Or even a weekend away. Step off the life treadmill if even only for an hour. Yes tomorrow is another day. Hope you feel brighter tomorrow. Take care. Karen xox

Hey Rowdy:) I am glad that you posted this on here.Judging by the replies,I feel that many other ladies can sympathise with you.I am nearly two years past the end of my treatment now,but I can tell you that I definitely struggled emotionally,in the first few months after treatment.Some days were worse than others,but somewhere along the way,I have returned to normal!!!! Occasionally I have a sad day,feel a bit sorry for myself,but I know now that I will wake up the next day and feel just fine,so I just go with it.This network of wonderful ladies( everyone give themselves a pat on the back!!!) is the place for support,so please stay connected on here.Cheers Robyn.xox

Hey Rowdy, sending you a big cuddle. You are one of my inspirations on this site. You are so supportive of all the members here, and you work and manage stuff at home. Just remember that you are remarkable, and that you're allowed to have a bad day every now and then. Might be time to remove your super girl cape and have a rest. Take care, Trace ????????

I'm with you - people think because your treatment has finished you are magically back to normal - huh!  I sympathise with you - feel free to tell us how you feel daily - I know everyone on this site will listen - don't expect too much of yourself - bigs hugs.  RosG

Hello Rowdy

Contact the McGrath breast care nurses- one rang me today?? ( I am a third of the way through my radiotherapy) and warned that people with breast cancer often feel they can't cope when their treatment is finished and she had referred people to counselling and advised taking more time off work if you are able to...

look after yourself ??

Take Care - thinking of you and sending hugs ??

Jan

Hey rowdy 

Try not to be too hard on yourself. When things get overwhelming just take a deep breath and remember how far you have come.  Try not to stress out to much over work....Remember its only work much more important things in life. If you are not coping too well speak to someone about it maybe there are others that can help you.  i hear you re your hubby i have one exactly the same at my place!! 

Lots of positive thoughts coming your way. ??

Maryrose 

Breast cancer and the treatment process really does your (our) head in, doesn't it? The sad days are the worst.

if we are sharing inspiring messages here's some I found today (for myself but you can have them too) from Louise hay:

• when I bring myself to grief, it is healing.
• i will feel my grief but not wallow in it
• in my sadness, I love myself 
• i love life, and life loves me

Plus my favourite:

Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes it is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying "I will try again tomorrow".

Sending you my very best wishes.