Hi @3boysmum, I've just finished treatment in September and mastectomies in November. I'm in awe you managed to work! Big back pat to you.
I had a triple negative cancer and I whilst I understand stats about recurrence and mets I've decided to try and just carry on regardless and not let these worries affect my decision making. You know maybe It'll metastasise this year next or never ( I'm banking on never!). I guess I just don't want regrets or the fact I had breast ca to control me.
I think you've answered you own question though by saying you need the security and the finial as well....
Its a great idea you're going to see a psychologist. Best wishes. Xxx