Hey Rochelle, there is that lovely name again :-) I am so glad you have such a beautiful postive thing for you and your family to look forward to. I am going to my Aunty Flo's 100th birthday this month which will be so lovely. She is an amazing women.I am so sorry that you find yourself in such a quandry about moving to be with your mum. That must be so tough. I wish I could flick a wand and make it all better for you.I do know that if you were my daughter I would understand that you have a life and you need to get on with your life and be there when you can whether by phone, email, messages, flowers etc. I live 400klms away from my children and I would never expect them to put their life on hold because of me and I would feel guilty that I have made them do that.I think doing your work remotely when you can is a great idea but if you moved to be with your mum wouldn't she start to wonder why?It is a tough one sweety and I am so sorry you find yourself in this situation. I am sending you comforting hugs and I hope you can work things out so you can feel better about the situation.I hope your mums party is a blast.Lots of love, Mich xoxoxoxo