If you want to chat? I just wanted to share what I have been through and learnt so far...*warning it

Donna, thank you for your kind words. it really means a lot. our experiences seem to have the same thread with different variations.  I am also over any sugar coating - just talk to me like a normal person. Not "that sick person" there are more posts to come - i just didn't want to offend anyone with my more blunt approach but it seems to be resonating with some people so there will a next edition coming soon! :-) xx