I liked this thought it would be a positive thought

@iserbrown No I think you have a valid point and nobody would be offended by your comment. I think the Tshirt idea being discussed is probably a joke. The reality of the quote though isn't meant as "woe is me". What the quote actually means is  "don't judge me for what you may not understand". And that my friend is being real. Everybody's life experience, whether it be bc, loss of a loved one, loss of a job or even chronic disease,  is unique to them. And we all react, cope differently.