Has anyone decided on a total life change ?
I realise that to some this post may be quite stupid but ...... I will persevere ..... Since my BC diagnosis 4 years ago I have been unsettled. The whole COVID thing has made things worse. As my hu...
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Oh @BlackWidow that would have been so hard to do the BC shitfest without your husband.Going through two sets of grief at the same time - but sometimes we surprise ourselves with our resilience.
My mum ( still going strong at 88) also calls herself the Black Widow as she has survived the death of two husbands.
Anyway , I think a breast cancer diagnosis leads to many of us re assessing our lives as after all we have stared mortality in the face.
I didn’t go so far as moving house , but I did decide to scale back on my work and learn to say “no” more often and be a little but selfish.
Only thing I would say about moving yo a new place is that if you sell and buy that costs a lot in terms of stamp duty so renting for say 6 months might be safer.
And don’t be worried about posting anything on here , no question is out of bounds and it’s a very supportive community.
Take care🌺
My mum ( still going strong at 88) also calls herself the Black Widow as she has survived the death of two husbands.
Anyway , I think a breast cancer diagnosis leads to many of us re assessing our lives as after all we have stared mortality in the face.
I didn’t go so far as moving house , but I did decide to scale back on my work and learn to say “no” more often and be a little but selfish.
Only thing I would say about moving yo a new place is that if you sell and buy that costs a lot in terms of stamp duty so renting for say 6 months might be safer.
And don’t be worried about posting anything on here , no question is out of bounds and it’s a very supportive community.
Take care🌺