Yes I found coles online a blessing as I felt like I still had control of the household - hubby, he's quite able when it comes to cooking and cleaning, doesn't like the washing machine (the easiest thing to use!) I would load the washing machine and then walk with one item at a time and hang on the clothes horse inside - I saw it as exercise and keeping my independence - I didn't want others washing my knickers (prudish I know) particularly when you consider it is all show and tell when you're in the medical system with Breast Cancer!