Hiya Jacqui...
So glad you have found this web site. I have found so many to be open and welcoming, I have no doubt you will find someone to help you through or share experiences with. As for your fraud comment, what snot, as my 8 yr old son would say, if you would excuse me for being blunt. Any news along these lines throws a lot of turmoil into lives that are planned and organised and if that doesn't give you the right for a bit of a pity party for a while, I don't know what does. Take time for yourself, curl up with some great chocolate, a better book and zone out for a while. Or take a bubble bath. Or whatever your favourite indulgence is. Take the time to acknowledge what is happening and then start to move forward. But I can see you are resiliant, I'm not sure that I would have faced all those things happening with a grin, like you seem to have done. I would offer my services to fix your roof (I'm a carpenter by trade) but not quite up to it physically :O) Hope you find someone before more rain comes...
Good luck with your operation. Let us know how you go, if you want to share...I'll be thinking of you tomorrow....
Ree