I cannot explain how good it felt to get your reply to my post, I do have good support from my family but unfortunately they are all a long way away and the added burden for my husband when we have to travell 3 hours each way for the operations and then back the next week for the results does take its toll. Anyway thank you once again,for your message, we are hoping that 3rd time lucky tomorrow when I have the operation, at least there are no unpleasant procedures beforehand this time,so am lucky there.
Jacqui