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Di_BCNA
16 years agoMember
Get Connected Day!
This is the Get Connected post, which is a place where you can introduce yourself if you'd like to widen your connections.
What to do...
Comment to this post (use the comment form at the bottom of the page) with a short note about yourself and who you're looking to connect to. Easy!
If you see someone with experience similar to yours, who you'd like to connect to, then just click their username (in their post) and you will end up on their profile page. Then all you need to do is look on the left side of the page under their picture and you'll see an "add contact" link and follow the prompts.
Why connect to others?
One of the good things about connecting to others, is that all of their blog posts will show up on your homepage in a reading list. So if you haven't visited the site in a few days, you'll still see what everyone is up to!
Important note
Remember to check your own privacy settings on your "edit" page. There's no need to reveal anything personal or private, but if you want others to connect to you, you should make some of your My Profile settings "public" so others can find out a bit about you (eg. 'my story', 'about' me' and 'breast cancer experience').
If you're not sure what to do, you might like to read this post on how to change your privacy settings.
Have fun!
Di
165 Replies
- Di_BCNAMember
No problem, ask away. :) If you do have a question, just make a new post here in this group and someone will respond. Chances are good if you need an answer, others will too!
- ShazboMember
Thanks Di I think I will need help not sure if I am getting around the netword the right way yet but will keep trying.
Shazbo
- louisegMember
Thanks for the lovely welcome Kaz......I feel like I have found a whole new group of friends who understand what I am going through by writing in this forum :) I may not have anyone who I can talk to face to face around here but it is great to write your feelings down anyway! I am also very lucky to have some wonderful friends and family members to help me.
Hope to chat to you all again sometime really soon
Louise x
- louisegMember
Hi Shirl
Yes, I can definitely say that I have well and truly been through the mill! Hopefully things will settle down soon and I will know what I'm doing....I feel a little lost at the moment :(
I live in Hillarys (northern suburbs of Perth).
I am trying to make more time for me....not always easy though and I do tend to put everyone else first :)
Keep your fingers crossed for me for the oncologist's visit the afternoon and a good result on the MRI tomorrow :)
Cheers,
Louise
- ShirlOMember
Hi there Louise, you've definately been on the medical merry-go-round haven't you. I hope as your results come in they give you the answers to your many questions.
I"m sure it seems like one step forward and two backward at the moment. You are fortunate that you have a great network of friends and family you can rely on.
Whereabouts in WA are you .... Perth or elsewhere?
Your business obviously keeps you busy, but don't forget to make room for yourself ..... in the overall scheme of things YOU are the important one.
Take care .... Shirl
- MelMember
Hey Lynne
Firstly So glad youve finished chemo! congrats! such awonderful thing to celebrate!! get that champayne as soon as you feel better
onc visit was ok bloods all good, added letrozol tablets and have more scans in 4 weeks, so i guess that will be when i see if this treatment is going to work. fingers crossed!
off today to pick up our caravan from qld sooo excited cant wait!
take care chat when im back home
Mel
- louisegMember
Hi everyone,
My name is Louise and unfortunately this is my second experience with breast cancer (and I'm only 42!).
The first time I was diagnosed was in July 2003 when I had extensive (9cm) DCIS in my left breast. I had a mastectomy and tram flap reconstruction done and now have a lovely flat tummy (you have to look on the positive :D). I didn't need any further treatment as the cancer was contained and the sentinel nodes were clear.
I have now been diagnosed with invasive ductal cancer in the right breast and have just come out of hospital after having another mastectomy and, this time, a lat dorsi reconstruction. I was rushed back in last week because of a haematoma (400mls of blood was drained! - I felt like I had mastitis!!). Since last Wednesday when I came out of hospital I have been to see the breast surgeon for the pathology results, had a CT scan, a bone scan and today I have a visit to the oncologist. Tomorrow is an MRI on my liver (they found a shadow on it) and then Friday back to the plastic surgeon to check on the reconstruction....I am thoroughly sick of doctors appointments and being used as a pin cushion!!
My pathology results appeared to be quite good - clear margins, no cancer cells in the sentinel nodes nor the other 3 nodes found in the breast tissue, oestrogen and progesterone positive, HER2 negative, DCIS and grade 2 invasive ductal 2.2cm tumour. Now I am worried about the shadow on the liver though.....
I am not sure what the oncologist is going to recommend today but it has been mentioned that I may need to take Tamoxifen for 5 years and maybe have some tablets to suppress my ovaries for 5 years. It seems unlikely that I will need chemo as the pathology was good (but I guess we will need to wait until I get the results of the MRI on my liver before I can be sure - and that may be another 10 days yet).
If anyone is in the same sort of boat or would like to talk to me, I would love to make contact. There doesn't seem to be much in the way of groups in WA as far as I can see, but on-line works ok for me anyway....I normally live a pretty busy life as I work from home with about 500 clients (I'm an accountant) and have two gorgeous boys to run around the place (13 and 15yrs). I have some wonderful friends who are willing to drop everything to help and a fantastic family too.
Take care,
Louise
- moira1Member
Welcome to our group of women here, we all know how it feels, but in my case once treatment starts, things start to get better. We have a wide age group on this site and feel free to come on any time and have a chat, complain, vent your anger, or whatever, there is always someone here willing to help. I too am from a rural area in SA where there is no support groups near. I was diagnosed in 2008, had a lumpectomy, chemo, radiotherapy and am now on Arimidex hormone for 5 years, and life is looking positive. so keep on comming here and let us know how you are going. please feel free to add me to your contacts, and i will help with anythin i can, also as di said unfortunately there are plenty of young ones on here who have been through and going through the journey. regards moira
- Di_BCNAMember
Hi Sharon and welcome! :) Have fun with the network and feel free to ask if you need a hand with finding your way around.
- Di_BCNAMember
Hi Joanna and welcome to the network! :) Just shout if you need a hand finding your way around.