Hi, my name is Tanya and I'm a 39 yr old mum of 5 who was just diagnosed this week. Will meet with the specialist next week and am scared as. The worst thing about all this is I'm finally getting married in 3 weeks from today after 7 years of planning and saving and then as a family we are supposed to be going on a cruise to Fiji 2 weeks after the wedding. I have no idea where this diagnosis is going to put our plans, and I think that is the hardest part so far for me....waiting for answers. From Monday to today my whole life has changed and I guess I'm still in shock. My doctor doesn't know if the specialist will wait till after the wedding to do surgery, and if he does will I be recovered enough to go on the cruise. Silly stuff I know considering what I'm facing.