Sorry you have to go through this again, I wish you well. I have seen the BCNA Hopes and Hurdles free pack and it's a wonderful source for woman going through secondarys, if you havent been told about it you can order it through this site or phone- 1300 887 340. It has a wonderful suggestion to you saying- "Take one step at a time. Breaking things down into smaller pieces might make them more manageable". I thought this was great advice not just through our cancer journey's but to all difficult things thrown our way.
We will be thinking of you, chat soon, Kaz