Hi GoldCoast Kath, and welcome to the network. :) Sorry you're having a hard time but I'm glad you found your way here. Take a look at the Help page if you haven't already as it will give you some tips on how to find your way around. You might also like to make a post in your own blog, which will then show up on the All posts page (this post is a bit old, so others might not find you here.)
The other thing you can try is typing the subjects you're interested in into the 'search' field (top of the page, just above the main navigation bar). In the results page, just look at the right side and you'll see whether each one is a web page or a blog post -- that way you can find others posting on the same topics as you.
Hope that helps -- just shout if you need a hand with anything.