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Hi Merilla

Welcome to the network, however having said that I am sorry that the diagnosis is the reason you are here.

Please do not apologise for being "dark" this is a very difficult time for you and you need to be able to openly express how you feel.  Feely overwhelmed, scared, and unsure and that nothing is real any more is a very normal response to a very difficult situation.  

You have only had 2 days to take in the enormity of the situation so be kind to your self as you go through the process.  

I was diagnosed  at this time of the year in 2000 I still  remember feeling scared and overwhelmed. I tried to be strong for my family and people remarked on my strength little did they know the inner turmoil I was experiencing.  A friend looked me in the eye and said "How do you really feel?"  I looked back and cried she held me while I just allowed all the feeling out.  The relief I felt was palpable.  I would encourage you to allow your feeling without placing a negative spin on them.

As you get more information and you have a treatment plan in place you will feel more in control and able to cope. Do not be afraid to ask questions.

If I can be of any assistance please contact me I am only too hally to be there for you.

Take care

Lorraine