Hi Mary
Sorry that you have been dealing with this on your own. I found that even when I had great family support and wonderful friends, they still just did not "get it" and the only people that did "get it" were the women that had been on a similar journey to me.
Pull up a seat, grab a cuppa and tell us where you are in your journey and more importantly why you are struggling and I am guessing that we have all (or most of us) have been where you are.
Great that you have found us, and I only hope that you get something out of this friendship.
Take Care.
Tanya xx