Hi Jo,
I can relate. Sometimes I still feel guilty about the people that I distanced myself from, but they were just not capable of walking my journey with me or could not understand that I needed support while I was going through treatment. I agree with leannel that a lot of times people just have no concept of what a young cancer survivor goes through, just like I have no idea what to say to someone who has lost a baby because I've never been through that.
You sound like a very positive person who loves to laugh, and I'm sure your cancer journey has taught you to live life to the fullest. Keep doing that, with people who love and support you.
All the best,
Janet