Hey @Lillian67, I'm glad for you that you've been able to talk somewhat with your hubby, and no wonder you're feeling a bit let down with the response you've received. I know being scared can be an excuse but bloody hell tell him to pull his head out of his rear end and give you some very necessary tenderness and a big hug!! Sheeeeeeeeesh!!!!!! If he is having problems tell him to talk to his mates and then give him a list of things he can do to help you (he probably is feeling pretty useless) make sure you put down that you need an abundance of pampering, spoiling and being totally looked after and having a crap day at work simply doesn't compare in any way, shape or form. You will get through this with flying colours. Perhaps talk to your hubby about having a couple of days break at an Otis foundation property and the two if you can plan that together? Sending you a huge hug, and a virtual bag of cement for your precious. Xx Cath