Hi @Lillian67, there isn't much I can add to what the ladies have already said but I just wanted to say how sorry I am that you feel you are going through this unsupported. Don't be strong for others, you don't have to be. This is life altering and you need to put yourself first. Many men aren't able to cope with illness and react poorly. I hope this is the case with your husband and he eventually wakes up! Has he read the booklet for partners? Please know you are not alone, we all understand what you are going through and are always here for you. Sending a hug, Jane xx