Finished chemo but.....
so this week was my last chemo. I'm just 2 days out and feeling the usual crap. My onc is really happy with how things have gone. I started with a 9cm lump and at least 3 nodes lumpy by touch. She c...
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@Lillian67 You've got to consider sometimes what would happen if you stopped being wonder woman, lay on the floor, had a complete meltdown, drank half a bottle of brandy, told them all to $#@+ off and took to your bed for a week. 'I'll give you "I've had a bad day." Watch this'
The whole thing is such a drag. I've just done surgery, chemo and rads. For the second time in a decade. I'm a tough old chicky, but then, I have to be. Thinking about what might happen later is just exhausting, so I don't tend to do it.
It's not good to feel unsupported, but if that's the way things have turned out there's not much you can do to change people's attitude. Appart, perhaps, from having the above mentioned tantrum. Those who have called you and offered help are the ones to focus on: put everyone else in your mental 'freezer' and don't waste your energy on them.
There's always someone here too, your experience sucks, but you are not on your own. Marg xxx
The whole thing is such a drag. I've just done surgery, chemo and rads. For the second time in a decade. I'm a tough old chicky, but then, I have to be. Thinking about what might happen later is just exhausting, so I don't tend to do it.
It's not good to feel unsupported, but if that's the way things have turned out there's not much you can do to change people's attitude. Appart, perhaps, from having the above mentioned tantrum. Those who have called you and offered help are the ones to focus on: put everyone else in your mental 'freezer' and don't waste your energy on them.
There's always someone here too, your experience sucks, but you are not on your own. Marg xxx