EMMA_MAY
12 years agoMember
Feeling low :(
I have always tried to stay strong throughout my journey. I have put on a brave face and barley shed any tears. I know that I am one of the lucky ones and feel so guilty when I complain to friends ab...
Hi Emma. Sometimes friends are also struggling with their own feelings about what is happening to you. They just don't always know what to say or are scared of losing a person that means a lot to them. They feel guilty about putting their feelings first because they are just as scared as you about what is happening.
I had a friend that took 6 months to understand the tension between us was as much about her fear as it was about mine. Her husband had died in a road accident a few years earlier. We now have the good and supportive relationship we had before my diagnosis.
It had taken me 2 months, with the support of my husband, to realise that this was the reason the friendship became so strained.
Keep your spirit up and try to think of all the good things you do have when you hit a low spot in your journey.