Hi @Hendrix, I reckon there is way toooooo much pressure to be everything to absolutely everyone at this time of year. I think that energy supplies, tolerance, and surviving can take too much of a toll to have the usual Christmas. I also think that our standard protective bullshit repellent wanes and leaves us open to far more intolerance than we would ever put up with at any other stage of our lives. So you and your beautiful daughter cherish this christmas and enjoy it and if that means staying away from relatives then so be it. You can have a far better christmas with one person who you care about and who cares about you, a vegemite sandwich and good wishes than going somewhere where you feel uncomfortable, left out and it is more a duty to fulfil. I wish you a very Merry Christmas filled with love and caring for both you and your daughter.
Xx Cath