@Afraser @Mollygirl @Caseypinto my daughter is 26 and would definitely be ok with us not going...it just gives her more ammunition to dislike them more. And yes I get that bullshit from my mum...what about me and what I’m going through...like what! My sister made reference to my been scared of cancer will come back to my niece been scared about a kidney scan her 5 year old had. I’m not sure how those 2 are related. No she wasn’t been scanned for cancer! I contacted one of my best friends and asked if i could come stay after Xmas just to get away as I was feeling quite down and she said no. Taking a drive down to Geelong to catch up for a xmas lunch with a friend hopefully she can lift my spirits. Thank you all lovelies Nellie xx