You're definitely not alone with that one...perhaps knowing that might help a little. I remember my mum telling me that although people's "friendly advice"(her words not mine:-)) was "driving me crazy" (once again, her words not mine!!) people who care about you want to feel like they are contributing to your wellbeing and care whilst you 're unwell and that's about all they have to offer really. Mostly I smiled politely and said thanks for the advice but there were times when I had no energy for that too!!! All the best. X