everyone has an opinion

I understand what you are all saying.  Before Breast cancer if I had a bad day you could ring family and friends and vent out my feelings and they would empathise and be sorry and say thats really bad.

Then when I got breast cancer, most the time I was really positive but of course I had bad days, I just wanted someone to talk to but everytime I said its a bad day to family they would jump on me go, you cant talk that way you have to keep positive and start giving me advice about everyone else that had cancer.   I know I had to be positive but what I really wanted was someone to say It Sucks, it is hard.

So I came on here when I was upset and I got so much support from all the lovely ladies. 

So yes filter out the comments and think they are trying in their own way to be supportive. 

Take care and I hope it all goes well

Dot x