Once i got my diagnosis, i basically closed down my dating profiles.
Then I was on a motorbike lovers Facebook group & noticed a cute guy who'd put up a cheeky joke, i commented to get his attention LOL, a few days later we started chatting online, I told him that first conversation about my diagnosis (this was less than 2 weeks after my initial diagnosis) and he was fine about that, he has his own medical issues he was born with too.
We agreed to meet up & go for a ride on ANZAC Day and just enjoyed each other's company.
We are head over heels in love, he's been there for me during my mastectomy, and when i got an infection, and now still with chemo just started, although he's been unwell - he put me first before his own and is wonderful.
We are going to look at houses together tomorrow . It seems to have moved fast, but sometimes life is like that when you meet that right one.
I figured hey, just spit it out, if they're gonna be freaked out by it then get it out of the way & nick them off - the good ones will stick around & stick by you!