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Hi Juli

Don't despair as I have found there is not as much activity on the site on weekends.  I am glad I replied so you don't feel alone.

If you are like me you always help others then are embarrassed when someone helps you (?).  Accept any offers of assistance as often it is the only way people can help you - and the medical side scares them too much !

Vent on this site when you are feeling low - and say it as it is for you at the time, no need to be 'politically correct'.  Ask as many questions as you need to - and you will get an assortment of answers.

Perhaps if you put your age, kids/partner and State someone out there may feel they should respond as they are more like you.  I am 62, married for 12 years and in rural Victoria so you may not 'connect' with me as much as others.  Once you know more about the type of cancer and your specific treatment your post may attract more responses.

I often reply to ladies 'personally' rather than 'publicly' as they often ask quite personal questions and I can give them answers without others reading their issues.  I am on quite often throughout the day as I use my computer to 'pace'  myself due to other medical conditions as well as our common one.

Keep checking the site.  Ask me questions if it will help you get through today.

Summer  :-)