Hey Rowdy!! Congrats on the 3yrs Woohoo!!! Fantastic news!!! and Hubby?? uuugh you know what ive found is, they are matter of fact, like the others have said, you get through treatment you look normal so you must be normal again end of story for them really. To them there isnt anything to fix and thats what they like to do lol. Alot can lack sensitivity and I know my partner, great as he was through treatment I cant talk to him about this whole thing because he's very much 'get on with it and life' type of person, which is great but...not just through this experience but I learnt I couldnt expect anything especially when I was married not all men think the way we do and alot just dont have the emotional capacity right or wrong. My ex husband was a wonderful lovely man...but....emotionally devoid made it very difficult. So Ive learnt in life now, go to the people who can give that. Yes I hear you...be nice for him to at least acknowlege it all and I agree! Hugs xo Oh enjoy ADELE lucky girl!!!!!!