cancer is the pits

hey all haven't been on the net for a few days, had our two year old grand son for a visit, boy am i stuffed. was meant to have him longer but been down today. found out last night a friend that was in our cancer support group and returned to england to  be with family during her fight with breast cancer she got 2ndry in her liver then her bones etc she died on monday 57 same age as me.  she had gone through so much so i guess now she is at peace but it isnt fair.

now my eldest sons wife michelle 37 has found a lump in her left breast and they are doing a mamo and ultrasound on friday and pos biopsy she has a history of cancer her mum died of throat cancer 42 yrs age never smoked. her dad has prostate cancer her gran had a womens cancer . her doctor is worried, she is so scared i am trying to support her and reassure her. 

she is terrified having seen what her mum and i went through. 

i have three friend going through 2ndry one two days after the 5yr date , and two after four years.

 this cancer business is shit shit shit. 

any way i wont dwell on it . i will get my head back to the now and get on with it. stay well everyone and to Mandy / Sam / Gaylene/ hippyviv hope things are improving